Charles McVety speaking out against Gay-Straight Alliances in Ontario schools
M Jordan expressing his fear of “deaf genocide”
To me, these are all variations on the position of not wanting a daughter because 1) she can’t carry on a family line and b) she’s going to be taken away from you. They imply a fear of loss, of subjugation, of losing out to another.
They are all instinctual, reactive positions. They might feel right, but they aren’t based in fact.
Having a son-in-law is not detraction; it’s an addition, a linking of families, a provision of new opportunities for partnership, expansion and growth. Plus, if there are grandkids, your genes get carried on anyway.
Learning more languages doesn’t steal from the richness of mother tongues – it adds to one’s capacity to think in different ways, come up with better solutions and develop competitive advantages. In a global economy, who doesn’t want multilingual employees?
Deafness is a condition of biology that getting cochlear implants doesn’t change, only accomodates. Having assistive technology enhances your ability and can actually facilitate cognitive development (plus, you can still turn them off when you want silence). There aren’t separate “deaf” and “aural” worlds – there’s just one world. The only question is how much access to it do you have?
Foreigners are the embodiment of diversity – you can feel they threaten your genetic/culture superiority, but what they really do is challenge your stagnancy. We’re all about innovation, right? Infinite diversity allows for infinite combinations. We want more diversity, not less.
And we can only move forward when we do it together.