I have little interest in engaging in conversation about who is at fault in this conflict or in polarized and heated accusations, nor do I propose that I have any solutions to the terrible suffering on both sides during this war. But what I do know is that the "us" and "them" perspective is getting us nowhere. And my sponsorship of the fesitval was my effort to think of ourselves as a collective "us" - those of us who just want peace.
Those of us who just want peace.
What, pray tell, is peace - and what is it for?
This is an important question to ask because - ready for it? - there are far too many people who don't want peace. In fact, a health chunk of our leadership isn't interested in peace.
Peace is the absence of hostility. Peace is respectful debate, empathetic communication and the ability to put the interests of the whole before one's own tribe, or one's own position and brand. Above all, peace is patient.
Politics, as it functions in most circles of the world, is the absence of peace. Politics is competition, forcing one's position, picking strategic fights, building coalitions and of course, about gaining and holding power.
There's no time for deliberation in combative politics - that's all a bit too much like committing sociology. Life has winners and losers and to be the former, you have to make some of the latter. There's no time to be nice when winning is at stake. Every ounce of cognitive, organizational capacity has to be dedicated to beating the other guy. That's the primary objective; when they're destroyed, you've won.
Some people are impatient, narcissistic, power-mad or just plain mean. Others have life experience that makes them so. Societies or community cultures can be shaped one way or the other - under threatening circumstances people of any given tribe are more likely to think "them vs us" and focus on end-states instead of pondering the dynamism of social living.
The aggressive, winner-take all types who tend to force their way into positions of leadership want it that way. They don't want us to think, to understand, to connect - they want us to follow. It's as simple as that.
Do political leaders and their supporters demonize their opponents and push the envelopes of acceptable conduct? Of course they do. They want an ideological war, because that's how they raise funds and score votes.
Aggressive politics is on the same behavioural spectrum as flat-out war. "Picking fights" with a union or a community group is no different than lobbing bombs at one region or another; the only difference is the severity, and the confabulation required to justify one's actions.
In all cases, collateral damage is just one of those things. Survival of the fittest, etc.
Because really, that's what it comes down to. War is The Heart of Darkness, the most basic instinct that evolution has developed for us. In our ancient past, the world was always a threatening place; we weren't the dominant species, we didn't have tools or infrastructure, we would only have interacted with other human groupings in competition for resources or maybe to exchange mates.
We have lived the vast majority of our existence this way; it's more natural for us to stand against than it is to stand together.
Back then, it mattered who the alpha was and that they were tough enough to keep the collective us safe.
That's why we have Alphas in the first place. It's why we will be inclined to respect tough, assertive people. We're programmed to.
That was then. Now, everything has changed.
We don't have to live in perpetual fear any more. The threats we face aren't lions or tigers, or shelter, or the dark. By and large we even have enough food for everyone, if it were properly allocated; medicine has reduced illness to a pale shadow of what once it was.
What is the opposite of hunger and the dark? What is the opposite of fear?
It's easy - bread and candles. Community.
This is the lost lesson of religion, which isn't about end-times, isn't about supporting a deity who will punish our foes for us. In its most basic form, religion is the antidote to fear - it is faith. It has built common ground and a shared mythology that unites people, no matter where they come from, who their family is or what they bring to the table.
Religion builds common ground and invites everyone in, equally. It has done this throughout time and across culture through the usage of bread, candles and the stories which we create and share together.
There is no breathing creature called Hamas any more than there is an island called Israel. There is us, there is space, there is the light that brings us together and the darkness that keeps us apart and afraid.
So it is with this war, or any other. It is not for me to say who has been more aggrieved than any other, nor who deserves justice more than their peers. To me, that's a bit like saying one family is more entitled to a seat at the common table than another. It can't work that way.
When we focus on what drives us apart, we lose, and those who crave the spoils of war win in goods what they lose of their souls.
When we focus on what brings us together, what we can build together on common ground, there are no winners, nor are their losers - there is community.
That's the big secret, the thing which eludes us when we forget how to look beyond ourselves or our tribes to something bigger.
Peace belongs to everyone. Until we learn to live as though the whole were more than the sum of its parts, we'll never have it.
Break bread, people - dip it in some soup, tell a story, laugh.
None of us is going anywhere any time soon, so we might as well learn how to live together.