Is Ontario In the Closet about Stigma?

Still, some 20 per cent of Ontario residents surveyed opposed gays running for elected office.  Among evangelical Christians, barely one-third supported gays in politics.

It's a sad fact, but homophobia still plays a role in politics; so do racism and gender-bias, among other stigmas.  Sheila Copps was regularly dismissed in a way she never would have been if she were male.  There are still plenty of folk in the United States who simply refuse to accept the notion of a black president and try to confabulate reasons why  Obama can't be legit.  

At the same time, Sheila Copps was an elected politician; POTUS Obama was just elected for a second term.  There was a time when women weren't allowed to vote and black men were enslaved.  In the Ontario Liberal leadership race, there are candidates who are gay, who are women, who are visible minorities - there's even one with a physical disability.  These accomplishments are significant victories that have been hard-won and need to be vigorously maintained, but we're headed in the right direction. 

I have enormous respect for trailblazers who refuse to believe there are certain positions that are simply off-limits to some and choose not to accept that some blatantly stigmatic attitudes aren't worth challenging.  In changing society's perceptions, these outliers enrich us all by forcing us to think more broadly.  Some of them make excellent leaders, given the opportunity.

Discrimination is like wine (easy to consume but leaves a nasty hangover) but with time, in iterations, it's being watered down by experience and understanding.  Stigmas are the same as any phobia - they can be overcome, but only when confronted.  

Or as one famously disabled politician once said, "we have nothing to fear but fear itself."

UPDATE:



"The iPhone maker will argue that gay marriage bans in 41 states are a detriment to workplace morale, harm employees and undermine recruiting, according to Bloomberg."

Telling.

The Evolutionary Importance of Gay

Here's an idea to play with your head...

"Same-sex sexual behaviors are flexibly deployed in a variety of circumstances, for example as alternative reproductive tactics, as cooperative breeding strategies, as facilitators of social bonding or as mediators of intrasexual conflict. Once this flexibility is established, it becomes in and of itself a selective force that can drive selection on other aspects of physiology, life history, social behaviour and even morphology," said Bailey.

Supported, stable rearing.  Supportive, got-your-back hunting.  The traditional separation of genders in culturally specific groups, yet the continuous sexual drives.  Heck, there's even supposition of a "gay gene" - which would suggest that "gay" has an evolutionary advantage (which is why it's a gene that gets carried on).

Could being gay play an important, evolutionary role?  One more reason for religious fundamentalists to oppose same-sex marriages, teaching evolution, and penguins, I suppose...

Mental Illness: Curing the Solution?

“The mentally ill make up a large segment of people charged with crimes in Canada, especially youths, who are often found by judges to be primarily in need of hospitalization, not jail.”

      - Jospeh Brean, National Post

We used to view left-handedness as a problem that needed solving; this approach was like force-feeding people apple seeds then stigmatizing them with a genetic proclivity towards cyanide poisoning.  In far too many places, homosexuality is still viewed the same way.  Much more broadly, mental illnesses and learning disabilities are seen as problems that need fixing rather than latent abilities and responses to conditions that are themselves at least partially causative.  Given the long, historical connection of mental illness to leadership, drive and innovation, this is an approach we take to our own social detriment.

I have ADHD (or to be more precise, have been diagnosed with a series of traits ascribed to the term Attention Deficit Disorder, defined as a learning disability), so I can speak from first-hand knowledge.  Focusing on one task at a time has been a lifelong challenge of mine.  This isn’t to say I can’t do it; just as, say, connecting ideas or events together or understanding different points of view is difficult for others, one learns to cope.  As we hope of everyone, I find ways to manage my challenges and build my strengths.

There are several accommodations I employ to help me stay centered; exercise, routine, music, caffeine and yes, periodically Dexedrine are part of this regimen.  This is no different than wearing glasses or watching your calories.  Too much of any one thing is bad; an overdose of any substance or activity is harmful, regardless of who you are.  Along with this - everyone has strategies for self-regulation.  This can be going to the gym, managing diet, writing a "to-do" list, having a cup of coffee in the morning to jump-start your cognitive engine.  People with alternative cognitive abilities might need more involved strategies to hold the line, but for most of 'em, with the right internal and external accommodations they can function normally, yet retain their exceptionality.

I’ve always laughed at the idea of being “disabled” – my ability to cycle through thought trains quickly (and several of them in short succession) has always meant I can consider more variables in shorter time frames than others.  Discipline and experience have helped me develop the internal tools to focus that process towards a given end.  In practice, this means I often jump ahead to where the narrative puck is going to be, whether it’s in a conversation or in broad social trends.  It's like filling in the blank spots on a temporal map rather than waiting for the next sequence in a chain.  Some people call this intuition; Carl Jung called it “seeing around corners.”  To me, it’s just the way I think – and I’m hardly alone in this.

You tell me – is a capacity like that really a disability to be managed, or rather a skill to be nurtured?

Time will tell.  Or, you can just ask.