"Too often, we live within their games, so why would you not study what works? Take away the bad stuff, because there’s a lot, and use the savvy interesting stuff and figure out how they can apply."
This is a sparring program, similar to the program reality of society. It has the same basic rules, like social gravity. What you must learn is that these rules are no different than the rules of a computer system. Some of them can be bent, others can be broken.